tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-290824522024-03-07T00:02:43.835-05:00The Road Called MotherhoodNakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.comBlogger81125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-48043385844003314462008-11-17T22:34:00.001-05:002008-11-17T22:34:58.718-05:00I Have MovedYou can now find me <a href="http://dnd-papercrafts.blogspot.com">here</a>!Nakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-4857561060587532272008-07-07T10:57:00.006-04:002008-07-07T15:00:46.365-04:00Sew Inspired Part 2My niece, Lauryn Ruth, turned one on July 1...Happy Birthday Warm Pillow. Due to family travels, her party is not until the 19th of July. So, me being the impatient one, I could not wait until then to give Lauryn her gift. We saw my twin sister and family this weekend at my dad's family reunion, so I gave it to her then. Sakira had been on Ebay like a mad woman, trying to order a pillowcase dress for Lauryn to wear at her party...I fixed that problem, and made her one instead. I purchased some fabric to use about four weeks ago from a local store, but decided that it was too heavy. I ended up using a lightweight cotton that I purchased at Jo-Ann's when Mary and Mel were in town (another post to come). I am so happy with how it turned out! I tried some new things, like a contrast seem at the armholes...TOO cute!<br /><br /><a href="http://s253.photobucket.com/albums/hh54/nakandken/?action=view¤t=TWCPhotos061608003.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://i253.photobucket.com/albums/hh54/nakandken/TWCPhotos061608003.jpg" border="0" alt="Photobucket"></a> <a href="http://s253.photobucket.com/albums/hh54/nakandken/?action=view¤t=TWCPhotos061608004.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://i253.photobucket.com/albums/hh54/nakandken/TWCPhotos061608004.jpg" border="0" alt="Photobucket"></a> <a href="http://s253.photobucket.com/albums/hh54/nakandken/?action=view¤t=TWCPhotos061608005.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://i253.photobucket.com/albums/hh54/nakandken/TWCPhotos061608005.jpg" border="0" alt="Photobucket"></a>Nakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-29394385394715611942008-07-07T08:30:00.002-04:002008-07-07T08:50:51.880-04:00Feeling a Little Black LatelyHey blog world! I must warn you that the title to this post is a direct reflection of its contents. I have really been feeling the effects of being black lately. I knew some eight years ago when I started to do real estate development, that this was historically a career path for white men, who worked into their rich old age. At the time, I was young, vibrant and up for the challenge. As I approach my mid-thirties, I am growing weary of the game. I am tired of the reluctant handshakes and forced conversations, the condescending attitudes and the stares. Does it not matter that I have been blessed with a talent to do the job placed in front of me. It is not everyday that folks are called in to man a $95 million development budget while keeping folks on schedule, in line and on time...not easy work and definitely not for the faint at heart. I wonder if I should not be able to do that since I am black because it always seems to amaze my white counterparts. Oh well...just needed to get that off of my chest, because it has me a little down lately. <br /><br />In His love...NakiraNakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-60624436407400851542008-05-14T22:14:00.004-04:002008-05-14T22:38:26.699-04:00Sew InspiredThanks to inspiration from <a href="http://niftyknitter.wordpress.com/2008/04/28/weekend-update/"><span style="color: rgb(255, 153, 255);">Mary</span>,</a> <a style="color: rgb(255, 153, 255);" href="http://nutsycoco.blogspot.com/2008/05/laziness.html">Mel</a>, and my dear twin sister, I created my first article of clothing tonight...a pillowcase dress for Kayden. I have been sewing for about six years now, but it was always pillows and curtains for my house.<br /><br />The dress is supposed to be super easy because you make it using a standard pillowcase, but of course I did not find one that was just perfect for my LO. So, I created a "pillowcase", using some fabric and ribbon that I purchased at <a style="color: rgb(255, 153, 255);" href="http://www.joanns.com/">Jo-Ann's</a> today. I bought the pattern on last night from <a style="color: rgb(255, 153, 255);" href="http://www.seweasypatterns.etsy.com/">Etsy</a> and it was sent to me via e-mail this morning. I was so happy with how it turned out that I decided to make some matching bows. Looks like I may now have a new hobby.<br /><br /><a href="http://photobucket.com/" target="_blank"><img src="http://i253.photobucket.com/albums/hh54/nakandken/Dress.jpg" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a> <a href="http://photobucket.com/" target="_blank"><img src="http://i253.photobucket.com/albums/hh54/nakandken/Bows.jpg" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a><br />In His love...NakiraNakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-59601359907077199522008-05-13T22:21:00.003-04:002008-05-13T22:28:41.945-04:00Going, Going, Gone....Just a small indication of my dear Kayden's personality. Pay close attention to the bottom of each photo. <br /><br /><a href="http://photobucket.com/" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" src="http://i253.photobucket.com/albums/hh54/nakandken/going1.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><a href="http://photobucket.com/" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" src="http://i253.photobucket.com/albums/hh54/nakandken/going2.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><a href="http://photobucket.com/" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" src="http://i253.photobucket.com/albums/hh54/nakandken/gone.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><br />In His love...NakiraNakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-43071368835283087212008-05-08T14:49:00.002-04:002008-05-12T09:10:31.922-04:00DisciplineThis post comes after a visit to <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Gymboree</span> at lunch last Thursday and I have to ask...don't people discipline their children anymore? Their is no way that I will EVER leave a store because of <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">Kayden</span> misbehaving. I will whisk her off to the nearest bathroom for a come to Jesus meeting and some laying on of hands in the biblical sense (<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?book_id=24&chapter=13&verse=24&version=31&context=verse"><span style="color:#ff99ff;">Proverbs 13:24</span></a>) . And then we will continue our shopping trip. I just do not ever want to be want of those parents that feel like they have no control over their children or what their children do. <br /><span style="color:#ff99ff;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-size:78%;">Disclaimer: I am not talking about outright beating, but about a pop on the hand or bottom. I do not want folks to call DSS on me</span>.</span> </span><br /><br />I really believe that children crave discipline just like adults do...very similar to our relationship with our heavenly father. I think that discipline gives a child balance, serves as a means for independence for the child and brings peace to the overall household.<br /><br /><strong>Balance: </strong>Children need to learn that things will not always go as they would like for them to...just as it occurs in our adult life. Allowing a child the chance to do <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">whatever</span> he/she wants without any form of consequences sets them up for failure as they grow older. I can only speak for myself, but I want to give <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">Kayden</span> a fair chance at life which means letting her see the hard time realities as appropriate. This is not always easy, but necessary and no one ever promised me that parenting would be.<br /><br /><strong>Independence: </strong>Once a toddler/child understands that there is a consequence for EVERY action, whether being obedient or disobedient, they learn to make better choices. If my child hits me whenever if or she is angry and never receives discipline, then he/she will grow to think that this is a normal behavior. The child may never find other ways to deal with anger besides hitting. Yes, this may be an extreme situation, but it is an easy one that drives the point home.<br /><br /><strong>Peace in the Home: </strong>As the mother of a 15 month old, I need all of the peace in my home that I can get. Having <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">Kayden</span> disciplined helps the three of us to get a lot of it. Ken and I are not focused constantly on dealing with the disobedient behaviors of a child, but rather quick correction and learning from our correction is part of <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">Kayden's</span> everyday life. And don't think that we do not learn lessons in our disciplining of <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">Kayden</span> because it causes us to examine our character and behaviors as well to make sure that those "learned" traits are not ones that she has picked up from us.<br /><br />I am sure that this message may rub some folks the wrong way, but as a Christian mother and wife, I want the Lord to be pleased with all that I do in and out of my home. Disciplining <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8">Kayden</span> is one way that we feel that we are honoring the gift that he has entrusted to us. <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9">Kayden</span> is not ours...she belongs to the Lord...we have been charged to raise her. I would love to hear comments from fellow parents (parents-to-be).<br /><br />In His love...<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10">Nakira</span>Nakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-58621406437095864582008-05-08T09:01:00.004-04:002008-05-08T17:04:39.354-04:00The Magical Patent Leather ShoesOver a year ago, on the weekend that Kayden's birthmother revoked, we spent some time returning some items to the store that we purchased for her while in Las Vegas, as we anticipated her arrival. The funny thing, now that I look back, is that we only returned two items and decided to keep the rest. Well, like most women, I also did some additional shopping. Although she may have not been ours, I just knew that God was going to bless us with a daughter in his own time. So, I go into Rack Room and they have these cute little black patent leather shoes on sale for $10 in a size 5. I had no idea at what age she would wear a size 5, but they were too cute and too cheap to leave in the store.<br /><br />Fast forward to Sabbath, May 4th. Kayden is dressed in a cute "preppy" little girlie outfit complete with pink grosgrain bows and ric rac to match. I put on her white mary jane's and frilly white socks to match. As I was pulling her hair bow out of the closet, I noticed the box...yes, the box of black patent leather shoes. She was already dressed and ready to go, so the perfect opportunity to try them on, since she is now in a size...yes you guessed it...5. They were so cute on her feet and I mentally prepared to pick out something to go with them for next week's service. I pull them off and put the white shoes back on. I step away for a second and when I returned, the white shoes were on the floor and she was frantically trying to get the black ones back on. I could see that this was going to be a no winning battle for me, so why even fight.<br /><br />So, instead of the cute green dress, she ended up wearing a cream and peach number given to us as a gift. I have to admit, I was never VERY fond of the number, but she looked like such a big girl in it...you be the judge.<br /><br /><a href="http://photobucket.com/" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" src="http://i253.photobucket.com/albums/hh54/nakandken/Bartee-ClarkWeddingWeekend007.jpg" border="0" /></a>Nakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-49861056177562097472008-05-07T21:55:00.003-04:002008-05-07T22:01:55.390-04:00Easy Gift for Grand(Mother's) DayI wanted to send photos of Kayden to her grandmothers for Mother's Day since all of them live out of town. I had my heart set on something easy...a ready to go book from Hallmark, but unfortunately, all of the slots for photos were landscape oriented and all but about three of my photos were portrait oriented.<br /><br />Plan B - I purchased these cheap little albums at Target for $2 each. I removed the cover inserts and create a cover for them. I then added the photos and added some basic 4X6 scrapbook pages. I finished it off by punching two holes through the center spine and adding a wide ribbon bow. I am REALLY happy with how they turned out.<br /><br /><a href="http://s253.photobucket.com/albums/hh54/nakandken/?action=view&current=MothersDay001.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="WIDTH: 136px; HEIGHT: 178px" height="178" alt="Photobucket" src="http://i253.photobucket.com/albums/hh54/nakandken/MothersDay001.jpg" width="117" border="0" /></a> <a href="http://s253.photobucket.com/albums/hh54/nakandken/?action=view&current=MothersDay003.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="WIDTH: 124px; HEIGHT: 179px" height="181" alt="Photobucket" src="http://i253.photobucket.com/albums/hh54/nakandken/MothersDay003.jpg" width="131" border="0" /></a> <a href="http://s253.photobucket.com/albums/hh54/nakandken/?action=view&current=MothersDay002.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="WIDTH: 134px; HEIGHT: 179px" height="179" alt="Photobucket" src="http://i253.photobucket.com/albums/hh54/nakandken/MothersDay002.jpg" width="198" border="0" /></a> <a href="http://s253.photobucket.com/albums/hh54/nakandken/?action=view&current=MothersDay004.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="WIDTH: 126px; HEIGHT: 179px" height="165" alt="Photobucket" src="http://i253.photobucket.com/albums/hh54/nakandken/MothersDay004.jpg" width="118" border="0" /></a>Nakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-64012205232866556932008-05-05T14:10:00.002-04:002008-05-05T14:12:48.868-04:00Supermom...no moreI fractured my pinky toe on yesterday. And yes, I do have crutches and I do have to wear that ugly shoe. This is killing me becasue I have to now slow down! Please keep me in prayer so that I do not go crazy. The average mother/woman would love to be waited on, but this is killing me!!! In His love...NakiraNakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-66301691891965111242008-05-01T21:51:00.002-04:002008-05-01T21:53:28.622-04:00Full of Joy...Why might you ask! My dear friend in Christ, <a style="color: rgb(255, 153, 255);" href="http://james127.blogspot.com/">Shawnda</a><span style="color: rgb(255, 153, 255);">,</span> and her family welcomed home their new son on yesterday. Imagine the shock to check my e-mail this morning and have this wonderful message. Welcome home Micah....welcome home!<br /><br />In His love...NakiraNakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-37912983879036894102008-04-29T10:28:00.012-04:002008-04-30T17:49:35.295-04:00In Support of AdoptionOn Sunday, April 27th, Kayden and I had the pleasure of attending a fundraiser in support of adoption. Our agency, <a href="http://www.achildshope.com/"><span style="color:#ff99ff;">A Child's Hope</span></a>, co-sponsors the event with <a href="http://www.nchopefulparents.org/"><span style="color:#ff99ff;">Hopeful Parents</span></a>, an adoption support group created by adoptive parents of the agency. The event is held at the home of A Child's Hope president and it is a lot of fun. It is wonderful to connect with women that you met through the internet and to see the children that existed only in photos announcing the agency's latest placement.<br /><br />On my ride back home, I begin to think of all the reasons that our family supports adoption.<br />1. Teh first reason is easy because it was the way in which God called us to grow our family. We were VERY open to the idea and we have been so blessed for being obedient.<br />2. As Christians, the Bible calls us to adopt. <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=James%201:26-27;&version=31;"><span style="color:#ff99ff;">James 1:26-27</span></a>, calls us to exercise pure and faultless religion, by caring for orphans and widows.<br />3. Adoption is the ultimate example of our relationship with Christ. As His children, he wants to adopt us ALL into his family, as stated in <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ephesians%201:4-6;&version=31;"><span style="color:#ff99ff;">Ephesians 1:4-6.</span></a> What a joy to experience the act of pure love that God experiences EACH and EVERY time that one of us gives our life to Him. Just to think that he thought enough of me to make that happen brings tears to my eyes!<br />4. Who could resist the unconditional love that comes from a child as cute as this:<br /><br /><a href="http://s253.photobucket.com/albums/hh54/nakandken/?action=view¤t=042708HopefulParentsTea7-1.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://i253.photobucket.com/albums/hh54/nakandken/042708HopefulParentsTea7-1.jpg" border="0" alt="Photobucket"></a><br />Love to you all! NakiraNakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-83111132649330957542008-04-25T22:54:00.005-04:002008-04-25T23:04:08.891-04:00The Army ShowerHappy Friday! In our home, we have a three minute shower/water use rule. Me, I jump in and start to lather as soon as I get in, but my husband is smart. He installed super low flow heads on all of our showers and each includes a button to stop the flow of water. He gets in, wets his body, lathers up his washcloth and <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">engages</span> the stop flow button. He washes with no water running, then disengages the flow stop once he is ready to rinse. He calls it an "army" shower, but I call it a clever way to get around the rule. So, in our house, water conservation is a must so not only are showers limited, but there is no water running as you brush your teeth, no automatic toilet flushes after a number 1 :), no small <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">loads</span> of laundry and no dishwasher running...yes, we still wash them by hand!<br /><br />It was nice this week to document the small ways that my family works to preserve the earth and its resources...thanks for the idea Mary! I now realize more than ever that every little bit helps!<br /><br /><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">Nakira</span>Nakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-79432702983446161762008-04-24T08:58:00.003-04:002008-04-24T11:41:19.184-04:00I Don't Need a ReceiptI should have warned you all that my Earth Week comments would not always be about action...that some may be purely research. Today's effort is just that.<br /><br />This morning I stopped at <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Panera</span> to pick up a sweet treat for breakfast. After placing my pastry in a paper bag, the lady handed me a 7" receipt for a $2.58 purchase. Why in the world did I need a receipt. Anyone that has ever had <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">Panera</span> knows that I was NOT going to return the pastry. This receipt phenomenon has gotten out of hand in my opinion. It is sad to say that my wonderful Target is probably the worst. Each receipt now comes equipped with gift receipt, credit card and survey offer...YIKES. In buying three items, my receipt was at least 12" long. That could easily equate to a sheet of paper per transaction depending on the number of items that you purchase...that blows my mind!<br /><br />In my research efforts, I was blessed to find this great <a href="http://www.prweb.com/releases/2008/2/prweb679953.htm"><span style="color:#ff99ff;">article</span></a> about this fabulous company <a href="http://www.alletronic.com/"><span style="color:#ff99ff;"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">AllEtronic</span></span></a>, that gives retailers the option of providing consumers with a paperless receipts. The article is dated 04.06.08, so it appears that the concept is fairly new, but one that I am starting to love. The only question now is how to get the information into the hands of the places that we love to shop. I say write a letter and encourage others to do the same. The service is free for consumers and "affordable" for retailers. Just imagine how much paper we could save if only the major retailers in your area bought into this concept and the worry of searching for that receipt when you need it!Nakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-67372699724133771552008-04-23T09:28:00.007-04:002008-04-23T22:27:51.076-04:00I'll Take the Wagon - Earth Day Effort Contd...Okay, I admit it, I live in the suburbs, but I am a city girl at heart! I would quickly ditch my spacious home for a quaint two bedroom condo in an urban area. I would rather take public transportation and listen to my <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">ipod</span> on the way to work <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">versus</span> fighting traffic and praying for peace after some person cuts me off. I would love to be able to walk more places and use my car less.<br /><br />I love to walk and we were blessed to move into a <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">suburban</span> neighborhood with a Food Lion shopping center within walking distance. Now when I need to run to the grocery store, pick up a quick dinner or get a hair cut, I throw <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">Kayden</span> in her <a href="http://www.target.com/Step2-Wagon-for-Two-Willow/dp/B000B74E9A/sr=1-1/qid=1209003368/ref=sr_1_1/601-0616791-5075358?ie=UTF8&index=target&rh=k%3Astep2%20wagon&page=1"><span style="color:#ff99ff;">wagon</span></a> and I hit the street on foot. Although the distance is not that far, about a mile round trip, it feels so good to not be in the car. It is also such a good workout!<br /><br />Now, if I could just convince the city to create more sidewalks, we could walk the mile and a half to the library.Nakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-44671769717712875102008-04-22T10:01:00.004-04:002008-04-22T11:46:50.554-04:00No More Paper Towels, PleaseTuesday Earth Day Effort. <br />Have you ever taken note of the number of paper towels that you use in a day? I have, and it is pretty ridiculous. We go through at lease three roles a week and that is a lot of paper that is not being recycled.<br /><br />I begin researching papertowel like options for my family about two weeks ago when I noticed another empty brown tube on the holder in the kitchen. I am not opposed to using cloth towels for drying of hands and picking up spills, but I want to be able to handle possible bacteria issues from a damp towel sitting in my kitchen. I have found a number of towels made from antibacterial materials, so my plan is to finish up with this last package of paper towels and then pick up some cloth towels to use.<br /><br />I still cannot bring myself to place a cloth towel in the guest bath, becasue that one would stay damp in a dark place, and that really frightens me (room has no windows). Unfortunately, paper towels will continue to be used in the house but on a much smaller scale. Right now, the master bath is the only place that we use a cloth towel to dry our hands :) So, until the paper towel package is done, I am placing a brown paper bag in the kitchen for used paper towels to go in and then head out to the recycling bin. I figure...every little bit helps!<br /><br />In His love...NakiraNakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-51609869719981819452008-04-21T17:01:00.005-04:002008-04-22T19:56:09.531-04:00I Have My Own BagsI am stealing this idea from my college buddy, <a href="http://niftyknitter.wordpress.com/"><span style="color:#ff99ff;">Mary</span></a>, in honor of Earth Day this week. Each day this week, believe it or not, I will post a way in which our family is attempting to conserve, recycle and reuse. I have never considered myself green, but now as I study for my LEED certification and look at how much is going green, I have no choice but to join the movement to protect the one earth that the good Lord gave us.<br /><br /><br />About three months I was at Target for our weekly Sunday trip and I stumbled across these great reusable sacks. They are neat becasue they fold and zip into themselves. I pruchased five of them and I keep them in my car or purse for easy access. So, for the past three months, I have significantly reduced the number of plastic bags coming into our home. I use them for groceries, for carrying stuff to work and church, for delivering food (I do get them back) and almost anything else. And, on days when I am over my five bag quota, I ask for paper bags that are also reused until they are limp from wear, at which point, I place them in the recycle bin. The bags are reasonable and a number of places now offer them for sale including Target, Harris Teeter, Whole Foods, Lowe's Food and EarthFare. And at no more than $.99 to $1.50, they are well worth the $5 that I spent.<br /><br />NakiraNakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-24006606469108397232008-04-21T09:39:00.005-04:002008-04-22T19:55:20.839-04:00Oh where, oh where, have I been....Everywhere except blogger! First, I did not keep my promise to blog more often. Life got busy. I hate that response, but it is so true, life is busy. Between working outside the home, maintaining a household and family, giving time to God and church and finding a few seconds for myself, life is busy. I want to come up with a new word besides busy...maybe...my time has been completely occupied :) So, this is what we have been up to...<br /><br />- February 3rd - <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Kayden's</span> first birthday party...we had a blast. Pictures are <a href="http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=14r1i633.85shghy3&x=0&y=-d6cmz2&localeid=en_US"><span style="color:#ff99ff;">HERE</span></a>!<br /><br />- February 4<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">th</span> - <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">Kayden's</span> actual first birthday and 12 month doc appointment.<br /><br />- March 3rd - Contacted by <a href="http://www.scriptandscribble.com/"><span style="color:#ff99ff;">Script and Scribble</span></a> about carrying my stationery on their site. Too exciting!<br /><br />- March 31st - Last day with my previous employer.<br /><br />- April 2<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">nd</span>-5<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">th</span> - Family Vacation to <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">Williamsburg</span>....remind me to NEVER pack again without a list and to NEVER stay in a hotel <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">without</span> a fridge. I forgot pajamas and toothpaste for <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">Kayden</span> along with a number of things for my hubby. Keeping milk cold for <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8">Kayden</span>, since she drinks <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9">Lactaid</span>, was a task.<br /><br />- April 7<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10">th</span> - Started my new job.<br /><br />- April 16<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_11">th</span> - Celebrated <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_12">Kayden's</span> Gotcha Day. I still cannot believe that it has been a full year.<br /><br />- April 21st - Starting to post on my blog again.<br /><br />Still no updates on siblings for <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_13">Kayden</span>. We know that God desires for us to have #2, just waiting on how he wants to do it :) I would love to know if you are still reading, so please leave a comment.<br /><br />In His love...<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_14">Nakira</span>Nakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-24269864265276158032008-01-21T21:29:00.000-05:002008-01-21T21:39:21.753-05:00A New YearHello Blog world and happy new year! I decided to change the color of my page for the new year and I working to update the avatar with a photo of the family...that will happen before the end of the year:) Our holidays were good and busy! Kayden had a great time celebrating the birth of Jesus...I cannot wait until she can fully understand what that means (there will be no Santa in our house). We had a Christmas Eve filled with the TRUE Christmas story and a family prayer that included my in laws...what a blessing! <br /><br />Our new year was spent in Myrtle Beach, a trip that we take annually. Things were different with Kayden; we were in each night before seven (her bed time). So now, we are back to the grind and planning a one year party for Kayden. We have invited way too many kids but we the decision was made to only do ice cream and cake, so hopefully things will not get too crazy on the 3rd of February. <br /><br />Our trip to Disneyworld was GREAT! Taking my MIL along was the best thing that we could have ever done...THANK YOU JESUS! Unfortunately, we did not take the digital camera, only the video, so I am still waiting on still shots from my DH. We did take some photos in the park using Disney photographers but thos photos were so expensive. On Saturday night I ordered one 5X7 and 4 wallets and we are now $20 poorer...what a rip off. At least we will have one momento to have from the trip. <br /><br />It so hard to believe that Kayden is almost a year old. She is starting to take steps, singing, pointing at everything, talking ALL the time and climbing the stairs (a favorite). We love our sweet pea and we are starting to talk more about growing our family. We are considering both adoption and possibly IVF/ICSI. We are waiting on God to show us his plan and that is the route that we will take. We are just excited to be a part of His great plan!<br /><br />I would love to hear from you all! I will work this year to do more than one post a month...maybe two a week. Take care!Nakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-47000841619255795352007-12-24T22:09:00.000-05:002007-12-24T22:21:50.335-05:00Merry Christmas<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHtMpt3jgCN-ywOJETZJDpy7UMfqgLR78yg_OTNY6uIRwSpJQRwPxxhVi7ayDmDni97C9MKslN674q9q0v-ov8nBetBPOZpDVkkyYThD7R9CBzKIVPHIt1JCetk67LUKtZ2WoJ/s1600-h/IMG_0903.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5147743870893234690" style="CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHtMpt3jgCN-ywOJETZJDpy7UMfqgLR78yg_OTNY6uIRwSpJQRwPxxhVi7ayDmDni97C9MKslN674q9q0v-ov8nBetBPOZpDVkkyYThD7R9CBzKIVPHIt1JCetk67LUKtZ2WoJ/s200/IMG_0903.jpg" border="0" /></a> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgRLceAhPOa0V_pxUF0Tg-mTI7ln3pHfZb_rL9ktGvSwzYHYJLTzH_fDyFHHAsVCn3T3W8LKdep0K5OZxy_45HJzfnX2LkVuPikedoBcYMlUAIWXlxSXqTap0B5l08HlVsrU4iG/s1600-h/IMG_0888.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5147744510843361810" style="CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgRLceAhPOa0V_pxUF0Tg-mTI7ln3pHfZb_rL9ktGvSwzYHYJLTzH_fDyFHHAsVCn3T3W8LKdep0K5OZxy_45HJzfnX2LkVuPikedoBcYMlUAIWXlxSXqTap0B5l08HlVsrU4iG/s200/IMG_0888.jpg" border="0" /></a> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgEGQX3mhvwlK6Q1PUus-s2lBAE30-_RA6TaVevMxAT2QRi-ZgFd2alFLX-n52RcBJpqmHnNiUdr1BaAX4-9NNmsaXx1xQYmZ0sC2k_gzwnqeHzJP7eitezrTAURcA2wApU8apN/s1600-h/IMG_0904.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5147745112138783266" style="CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgEGQX3mhvwlK6Q1PUus-s2lBAE30-_RA6TaVevMxAT2QRi-ZgFd2alFLX-n52RcBJpqmHnNiUdr1BaAX4-9NNmsaXx1xQYmZ0sC2k_gzwnqeHzJP7eitezrTAURcA2wApU8apN/s200/IMG_0904.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><div>God's richest blessings to you and your family this Christmas. This time of year is always a time of reflection, but this year brings even special meaning, as we share in the joy of Joseph. Joseph was graced with the gift of adoption just as we were this year and the overwhelming love that it brings. Lord, I thank you for the baby Jesus and also for showing the world the ultimate example of adoption. What a blessing! I hope that each of you have a day filled with family, friends, love, but most importantly, Jesus! My love to you all!</div>Nakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-58535839458757504392007-11-28T14:41:00.000-05:002007-12-09T22:21:03.400-05:00Happy Late Late Thanksging<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMEEVqNXfP98DIy-IPF-RvS2x25A8WX1eMR5M08Z97BmoR0B9GTOPhPo23pukWDZPrKYAXHmjFLpg4xEcTi2-fwkPHqxq1JtFdCILr7jYGwVp2pZ822SgUhq9xyWoDIvNIUSfR/s1600-h/Kayden+and+Lauryn+112207.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5137982627025260674" style="margin: 0px 10px 10px 0px; float: left;" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMEEVqNXfP98DIy-IPF-RvS2x25A8WX1eMR5M08Z97BmoR0B9GTOPhPo23pukWDZPrKYAXHmjFLpg4xEcTi2-fwkPHqxq1JtFdCILr7jYGwVp2pZ822SgUhq9xyWoDIvNIUSfR/s200/Kayden+and+Lauryn+112207.jpg" border="0" /></a> Oh my goodness, it has been over a month since I last posted. No one told me that motherhood coupled with marriage would allow me less and less time to spend blogging. We have been really busy preparing for the holidays and loving on our stinky! It is so hard to believe that Kayden will be 10 months old on the 4th...it seems like yesterday that we were just bringing her home from the agency! <div></div><br /><div>This time last year was a VERY sad time in our home as we were dealing with the lose of a baby that we would never conceive naturally. I just thank God for his love and mercy and the fact that He had a better plan in growing our family...much better than anything that conception could have ever created. For that, I am TRULY thankful!</div><br /><div>Kayden continues to be such a sweet baby and she is busy as ever...here is her rundown:</div><div>- Crawling (quickly and about three stairs at a time)<br />- Clapping<br /></div><div>- Pulling Up</div><div>- Cruising</div><div>- Trying to stand alone</div><div>- Self feeding finger foods</div><div>- Talking ALL the time (uh oh and ba-ba for bottle are the new ones)</div><div>- Holding board books and turning pages</div><div>- Dancing (so cute, she rocks back and forth and moves her head the same way)</div><br /><div>As for me, nothing new. Work is good and life is even BETTER! I am looking forward to Christmas and our annual trip to Disneyworld. We leave on Dec. 8th and return on the 15th. We are blessed that my MIL is joining us which will make it possible for us to have a few nights out on our own. This is her Christmas gift from us, so we are sure that it is one that she will love. Be blessed and I promise that I will post more often. </div><div></div><br /><div>NikNak (oh the photo is of Kayden with her cousin Lauryn...Kayden is the turkey queen)</div>Nakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-62849144859246926212007-10-17T10:11:00.000-04:002007-10-17T10:20:02.292-04:00So...<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgi9tZ47PzpWx4MbAuvvnikIwnPCeXxnOvLT9apDz-yP-sQzFkN5dkYOGMvkQieTFh98uZiFVbCwRspiKCtcjde-YmVZP8Ynx1I96FEaa2-JVuUFCaoH2ZSiSd7Z8osvgq08eXW/s1600-h/Chilly+Day+1.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5122310007055136258" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgi9tZ47PzpWx4MbAuvvnikIwnPCeXxnOvLT9apDz-yP-sQzFkN5dkYOGMvkQieTFh98uZiFVbCwRspiKCtcjde-YmVZP8Ynx1I96FEaa2-JVuUFCaoH2ZSiSd7Z8osvgq08eXW/s200/Chilly+Day+1.JPG" border="0" /></a> it was a little chilly outside this morning, so I asked mama to put on my hat and sweater. I am good now...all WARM and COZY!<br /><div></div>Nakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-40607329166510681682007-10-10T19:33:00.000-04:002007-10-10T19:47:55.073-04:00Kayden's First PerfomanceAbout two weeks ago, Kayden gave us her first muscial performance. I was trying to cook in the kitchen and she was not hearing that! So, I pulled out the camera, a pot and wooden spoon and let her entertain me. It was hilarious, but got even funnier when the grandparents arrived with a purple knit sweater hat equipped with an ole' skool fuzzy ball and a dress to match. The purple made me think of Prince. The first two photos are some random photos before the performance and the last two are from her finale. Enjoy!<br /><br /><div><div><div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGRF-PjV3e8HmLCYll8ZQ45nBVqLaOyAGy5OvpXCHwLVUUv7B9uqd2j6MzZfkmqqfZTzjVXhoP0fKyVJ-fzKVJCBBvsOUXGHyBARqwcNPRd2Q7ZreHwdXvauStlePpYe-yh7A8/s1600-h/Photo+Shoot+1.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5119856451152721346" style="CURSOR: hand" height="183" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGRF-PjV3e8HmLCYll8ZQ45nBVqLaOyAGy5OvpXCHwLVUUv7B9uqd2j6MzZfkmqqfZTzjVXhoP0fKyVJ-fzKVJCBBvsOUXGHyBARqwcNPRd2Q7ZreHwdXvauStlePpYe-yh7A8/s200/Photo+Shoot+1.jpg" width="134" border="0" /></a> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnp49q_AIG-kRpZ2ZiYc2eKQuIj5SasB6v6vDyKfODz4VMq7jJJQ85ISa9SjJZ7zDkbH8JRSA44SbbBiDCgtDKFwXhlxzA8M7KrBS_S-sAVDCrjoYmjrG14EBxRzBOOz8PNKOp/s1600-h/Photo+Shoot+2.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5119856837699778002" style="CURSOR: hand" height="133" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnp49q_AIG-kRpZ2ZiYc2eKQuIj5SasB6v6vDyKfODz4VMq7jJJQ85ISa9SjJZ7zDkbH8JRSA44SbbBiDCgtDKFwXhlxzA8M7KrBS_S-sAVDCrjoYmjrG14EBxRzBOOz8PNKOp/s200/Photo+Shoot+2.jpg" width="184" border="0" /></a> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHVm_-T7rZbqo5N0k3Fo7IJknGtnNFyQqv4LidTPr-gqwWrW3OflaZT-H4Q2d1mVYWzQ0OxCnCWeGCKyfVNu3usLlpmD1wuc6iJGuLDMiIciGGM0uuVItLavFgNfMzrg1suk9s/s1600-h/Premier+2.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5119857391750559202" style="CURSOR: hand" height="186" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHVm_-T7rZbqo5N0k3Fo7IJknGtnNFyQqv4LidTPr-gqwWrW3OflaZT-H4Q2d1mVYWzQ0OxCnCWeGCKyfVNu3usLlpmD1wuc6iJGuLDMiIciGGM0uuVItLavFgNfMzrg1suk9s/s200/Premier+2.jpg" width="135" border="0" /></a> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_j6lIHqst-KsSC0XpfszXP_Z0YRVye15ZOzbWNVeMWqgTuzu1vGDAIfl9Y_PwLnWASpxyr15mBaeJy6e63l0VEvAW2JqyUEHkghN4U6wIq4KpfKGltC2X-80uQaJooBRLLddU/s1600-h/Premier+1.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5119858847744472562" style="CURSOR: hand" height="139" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_j6lIHqst-KsSC0XpfszXP_Z0YRVye15ZOzbWNVeMWqgTuzu1vGDAIfl9Y_PwLnWASpxyr15mBaeJy6e63l0VEvAW2JqyUEHkghN4U6wIq4KpfKGltC2X-80uQaJooBRLLddU/s200/Premier+1.jpg" width="174" border="0" /></a></div></div></div></div>Nakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-37822090983275498502007-10-03T22:06:00.001-04:002008-04-24T15:47:36.492-04:00Praise God...<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkO7soHwpZIUBxMcsZFsbHrf-cnw_c-HWkq5xiOTQjlB0w8aiuTbevPipBg6y2F-9DjP5U12u9dxy9duRQhu_4T9ax3A6olZ7AAVR34WCweURTxaKKJY5J4p461lzqF7BL6X5P/s1600-h/First+Flight.JPG.orig"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5117304763837527474" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkO7soHwpZIUBxMcsZFsbHrf-cnw_c-HWkq5xiOTQjlB0w8aiuTbevPipBg6y2F-9DjP5U12u9dxy9duRQhu_4T9ax3A6olZ7AAVR34WCweURTxaKKJY5J4p461lzqF7BL6X5P/s320/First+Flight.JPG.orig" border="0" /></a>I am still around. It amazes me that we always say that, but I KNOW in my heart, that heaven is MUCH better being here on earth :) Life has been BUSY, BUSY, BUSY...did I say BUSY already? This is what we have been up to since mid-August when I did my last REAL post...man, it is now October (That means FALL, FALL, FALL and the State Fair, now, if it could just get cooler during the day):<br /><div><div><br /><div>1. Adjusting to being back at work. Through God's grace and mercy, the transition back has been relatively smooth. It is such a joy to have a husband that works from home (a <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">techy</span>) and one that loves to clean. Now if only, work was not so stressful. I am mentally drained when I come home, so having a clean house and the cutest baby in the world waiting on me to pick her up from daycare, the cares of work disappear, but the fatigue doesn't. Just a constant reminder that my strength lies SOLELY in the Lord!</div><br /><div>2. Watching <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">Kayden</span> grow and grow and grow. It amazes me at how quickly babies change and evolve. Our little one now has two teeth and at eight months old (tomorrow), she is starting to crawl and pull up. We really need to spend some time on Sunday childproofing the house. She is now about 18.5 lbs and 26 inches long and yes, we cannot purchase Soy formula fast enough. Her <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">personality</span> is now starting to develop and we now know for SURE that she is going to be a handful. I must admit that I am now itching for <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">Kayden</span> to have a little brother...if it is God's will for our lives, then we are <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">believing</span> that he will make it happy. </div><br /><div>3. <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">Preparing</span> for my <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">SIL</span> to move in with us. My <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">SIL</span> "A" was blessed with a great job opportunity here in Durham, so she is moving to Durham from her hometown of Greensboro. At 42, this will be her first time ever living in a different city. Ken and I are SO happy to have her come and we couldn't say no, <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8">because</span> the Lord has blessed us with more house than we need right now. We are having to move some spaces around, specifically my scrapbook area, which means some spring in the fall cleaning. This will also mean a love in sitter...I know, that is horrible. But because K<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9">ayden</span> goes down at 7PM each evening and sleeps until 6:30AM, we hate to pay a sitter to come to our home and watch TV. So now, we can head out for a movie and know that someone is here with <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10">Kayden</span>, if she should decide to wake up...likelihood is slim :) </div><br /><div>4. Traveling. <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_11">Kayden's</span> first flight was about three weeks ago when she joined me for some meetings in Baltimore for work (Ken drove up that night and we spent the weekend hanging out with friends). She was an angel, like she always is, and allowed mama to work and love on her at the same time. We also have had some weekend trips to Richmond, Charlotte and of course Greensboro.<br /></div><div>5. Preparing for Christmas (close your mouths)!!! I have already started my shopping and started designing my homemade gifts. The paper for the Christmas cards has also been <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_12">purchase</span>, so I hope to begin work on those soon and start addressing envelopes this weekend...if I get a free minute. I recently found out that we will be hosting Thanksgiving here at our home, so <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_13">Christmas</span> plans will come to a halt for Turkey day!</div><br /><div>6. Continuing to love life, my family and where God has me right now. That says a lot when I feel like all I do is complain about not having enough time or energy for ANYTHING. I am reading a book called <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_14">Feminime</span> Appeal, recommended by my friend <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_15">Shawnda</span>, and I must say that it is changing my perspective on how I look at the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_16">more</span> important things in my life. The scripture basis for <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_17">the</span> book is Titus 2: 3 to 5, where older women are given the directive to teach younger women to do the following: love their husbands and children, be self controlled, be pure, working at home, kind and submissive to their husbands. POWERFUL stuff I tell ya!</div><br /><div>That is all for now! The photo of our sweet pea was taken just before take off on our Baltimore trip...she is starting to look like a little girl! In His love...</div></div></div>Nakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-12564127086646792412007-09-22T07:59:00.000-04:002007-09-22T08:17:40.145-04:00I've Been TaggedBy my college buddy Mel over at Nutsy Coco Creations...you guys should check out her <a style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);" href="http://http//www.etsy.com/shop.php?user_id=5102029">Etsy</a> store....FABULOUS photos and jewelry.<br /><br />I have been given the task of writing seven random things about myself, so here goes!<br /><br />1. I love numbers!!! I had a 790 on my math SAT's and I am sure that this was part of the reason why. Whenever I see a series of numbers, I try to figure out how they relate to one another. For this reason, I am a GREAT % off sell shopper, as I can compute things quickly in my head. It is so bad, that my husband will call me on my cell in the same store so that I can tell him what he can expect to spin.<br /><br />2. I am also a list maker...I love the list of accomplishments that I can view and say...I got it done. That is all so important now that we have Kayden and I feel like I am always hopelessly behind.<br /><br />3. I love small quaint spaces. You would never guess that since my home is 3,100 sf...I know, ridiculous. I want a smaller home and yes, my friends and family think that I am crazy! Small spaces allow you to think outside the box and come up with creative storage and space planning ideas. If I was single, I would have a small studio apartment even if I could afford more.<br /><br />4. I cannot read a sewing pattern, but I can make panel curtains. This is always a shock to folks since i made 80% of the window treatments in our home...mostly panels and simple valances. Because of architecture school, I can sew a straight line and complete accurate measurements, but that is about all. I want to learn how to sew and to smock so that I can make cute clothes for Kayden like my friend <a style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);" href="http://bellaandmilly.blogspot.com/2007_06_01_archive.html">DeAnna</a><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">.</span> Such cute stuff and stuff that would have been so expensive that I would have had to mortgage my home to purchase :)<br /><br />5. I would prefer to give a handmade gift than anything else. I consider myself to be a really crafty person so I joy in giving folks gifts that come from th heart and not from the store. The problem is that i do not do it often enough for fear that people will think that I am cheap! At Christmas time, it is easy to do, because people expect handmade gifts, but throughout the rest of the year, I shy away from doing that.<br /><br />6. I am a $30 person when it comes to buying clothes for myself. I will not pay more than $30/piece including most dresses. Clothes wear out so quick and I do not see the point in paying more than that...and Enfamil formula can also do a number on your clothes. So, that is why I shop at Target and only at Ann Taylor and the Loft when they have major sales. Call me cheap, but I would prefer to spend those other dollars on vacation.<br /><br />Okay <a style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);" href="http://nutsycoco.blogspot.com/">Mel</a>, you got your post...I will do better...I promise.Nakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29082452.post-17148093477068549402007-08-12T21:16:00.000-04:002007-08-12T21:30:29.512-04:00Dedication DayOn yesterday, Sabbath, August 11th, Ken and I felt so blessed to be able to dedicate our daughter back to the Lord. The moment was surreal, because it was a day that Ken and I thought would never come. We prayed and prayed for the Lord to grow our family however he saw fit, and His way, like always was perfect. For the dedication service, a dear friend of ours, SWC, sang <a href="http://www.maryricehopkins.com/songs/songs2004-01/48%20Track%2048.mp3">Miracle of Life</a> by Mary Rice Hopkins. If you have never heard the song, you must. The lyrics are as follows:<br /><br />The miracle of life<br />The greatest gift God gave<br />He placed you in our hearts<br />And there you'll always stay<br /><br />We once longed for a child<br />God heard our heartfelt prayer<br />Now we've adopted you<br />Now look at you, you're here<br /><br />Chorus:<br /><br />Now we're holding you and loving you too<br />Holding a miracle before our eyes<br />We're holding you and loving you too<br />Holding a miracle, holding a miracle<br />Oh what a miracle of life<br /><br />The similarities<br />Oh I can't believe<br />You've got your mother's smile<br />though impossible it seems<br /><br />How can this be chance<br />How can you explain<br />God placed you in our home<br />Now you share our name<br /><br />There's so many ways God shows His grace<br />He fills our void deep inside<br />so many times I've seen God's face<br />In you, my little child<br /><br />Unfortunately, I was not able to get any photos of the dedication, because we did not have access to our cameras, but I am posting a picture of our sweet pea, that was taken about two weeks ago. We had photos taken of her in her dedication dress along with a few other fun shots. I will post some of the other shots from the shoot later this week!<br /><br />God bless you all! NikNak<br /><div></div><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5097991250079156290" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjnuCe_p-xdV9D7IbXnTn0hBxhYvMLlplYz2Aoy0u1FoMRMFyjEZuhbWdiGI5oF8F6_oQk0nXJxp69T4t4q1sx0iuSfQ6yvP_Q6m910ZvV16xyw0dCgJf1ctoKV33YSjs1bYn-d/s200/Dedication+Photo.JPG" border="0" />Nakirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17202536991925733974noreply@blogger.com13