Redefined

Exactly one week ago, Ken's career coach joined us for dinner. I had no idea that this man had a specialty in life coaching as well, so I was in for a WONDERFUL surprise. Ken had been meeting with him over the past three months and I noticed such a change in him. He was a different person, even becoming more positive about work. AMAZING! So after dinner, we went over the homework given to us by the coach at Ken's previous session. He took our answers and created additional questions for us to answer that hew ould walk us through to answer.

In short, I decided that one thing that I needed to do is redefine myself. Define who I was a wife, mother, career woman, sister, etc. I quickly realized that my redefinition would actually be an initial defining of myself. For so long, I defined myself by what others thought of me or as I related to those around me. This infetiltity thing is causing me to look at myself in a whole new light. See, we all just assume that we will get married, have children and live happily ever after. Well, this is not the case for us...our fairy tale was interrupted. This interruption is affecting EVERY area of my life whether I want to deal with it or not...I have decided to tackle this head on.

I truly believe that there is something in all of this that the Lord wants me to see. There is something to be gained here and I am eager to see what I become as a result of this situation. I will never be the same again and that may not be a bad thing. It is weird to type that and think that, but it is true.

So as the redefinition begins...I will remain open to what God wants to do in my life.

Be blessed!

NikNak